Episode 58
D&D Tips for New Players and DM's
Warmup from Tanner to Justin:
If you could make a character for an uninterested player, what would it be?
Intro:
Welcome back, adventurer! We’re excited for another episode of How to Be a Better DM!
Together, you and I will learn how to craft better stories for yourself and your players as you DM sessions of Dungeons and Dragons 5e, no matter your level of experience. Today I’m your host Tanner Weyland, with my compatriot, Justin Lewis.
With the references to D&D in popular shows like Stranger Things and even a Dungeons and Dragons movie coming out, the hobby has seen a large growth in new players and will likely see even more newbies join the game. This means that there will be both new DM’s and new players who need help and need to be shepherded into the world of D&D. It’s our job to make sure that happens in a way that encourages them to stay and today we’re going to talk about just that!
Before we get into today’s main topic though, let’s go through some housekeeping items!
We’ve finally finalized the date of the next one-shot. It will be held online on Saturday, September 17th around 2 PM Mountain Time. So far we have all 5 players signed up. For those four players, we’ll be sending out a calendar invite to make sure they have the date settled. Next, just another shoutout to our show listener Robric Vanhelm. If you want to get his professionally made encounter in The League of Libraries: The Lorecroft Collection then go to betterdungeonmaster.com/robric and purchase it. All proceeds go to Robric who’s made some amazing stuff.
Well, I think that is enough jibber jabber so let’s get to the meat of today’s conversation. D&D tips for beginners.
Main Topic: D&D Tips for Beginners
Justin
- Talk with your players/DM
This tip goes both ways for new DM’s and new players. For the new DM: You need to ask your players lots of questions about what they would add to your game or what hasn’t really worked for them as well as tell them that they can freely talk to you and ask you questions. If you need info about a player’s backstory, ask them without delay. If you want your players offering you info about their backstory, tell them nothing would make you happier. Ironically, for such a “nerdy” game this game teaches a lot about relationships. In order to have a successful campaign, you absolutely need constant and consistent communication from all parties involved. If nothing else, you need that just to keep the game consistently scheduled.
- Encourage players to unlimit themselves
Sometimes new players might look to the DM and think, “What is it they want me to do here?” If that is how you play as a DM, I suggest you rethink your style. I know my wife has said that to me in the recent past during our game and I took that as a personal failure. You want your players to think outside the box and treat the scenarios as real world scenarios where there are infinite options. The mechanics of the game are there to be just that, mechanics, processes that explain how consequences come about. If they want to try something, they can. It’s my job as the DM to think about how logically difficult (or perhaps impossible) that thing is and then let them try anyway.
So tell your players to let themselves imagine grand things and then try them out.
- You get out what you put in
Tanner
- Take ownership of the lore and content.
As a new player, it may be easy to just arrive at the sessions and “tag along.” Instead, take ownership. Get some materials, whether you download or buy them. Also, know your own character’s backstory in a deep way. Study a little bit of your class’ mechanics every week. You might even want to study some of the deeper lore–that is when you can feel like a contributor, not a sidekick.
- Embrace Collaboration with both the players and DM
This is in a similar vein to my other tip, but it is a practical tip for creativity: your best ideas will come when you try to create them in collaboration with the DM or other players.
Break (From Tanner to Justin)
Main Topic Continued:
Tanner
- Try DMing.
Justin
- It’s ok to stop
This is a tip to relay to your new players. You need to let them know that this is a new thing they are trying. If they don’t like it they don’t have to keep playing just to make you happy. In fact, you should go one step further and tell them how exactly you want them to pull you aside when no one else is around and simply explain that you had some fun but D&D just isn’t their vibe, or their kids need more attention, or they have different priorities or anything else. What’s not ok is for players to constantly lead everyone on or force everyone to change their schedule because they don’t have the spine to say, “No thanks.” D&D is not for everyone. We welcome everyone and invite everyone, however who stays is entirely up to them. I’ll tell you this though, we will make some amazing memories with whoever stays.
- Describe Your Own Combat
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Transcript
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weyland]:okay so this is outdated because it says four players have signed up it should
weyland]:be five
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lewis]:maybe the next time i reach out to someone i'll ask that question but
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lewis]:reason is just
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lewis]:because it kind of it covers up any
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lewis]:do you hear like my chair like squeaking at all
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weyland]:it's not enough very much though
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weyland]:perfect
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weyland]:okay i'll get started then
lewis]:oh
weyland]:hello and welcome back adventurer we're
lewis]:oh
weyland]:excited to have you on another
lewis]:my
weyland]:episode of how to be a better d m to get started i've got a
weyland]:warm up for you and you're ready
lewis]:all right yeah
weyland]:perfect
lewis]:let's do it
weyland]:okay let's say that you have to make a character for an uninterested
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:player right like a friend of
lewis]:ah
weyland]:yours who isn't you know he's doing it or she
lewis]:oh
weyland]:is doing it because you know they're you know they're willing to go along with
weyland]:it but they're not all that excited what kind of character would you make for
weyland]:that uninterested player
lewis]:that is such a good question and i actually have a specific friend in mind
lewis]:one that i've asked hey do you want to play d n d some time
lewis]:and he's like honestly man that just seems like a long meeting and so definitely
lewis]:have him in mind now with this i would say you have to make it
lewis]:kind of to fit the player so you do have to know the player a
lewis]:little bit but going somewhat
weyland]:hm
lewis]:general i would make a character that is somewhat simple so not too many extra
lewis]:attacks not too many spells i would either
weyland]:oh
lewis]:go with a warlock which is nice magic user you still get to use the
lewis]:magic but it's not as complicated as a sorcerer cleric
weyland]:h m
lewis]:wizard m i think it would also be very interesting to
weyland]:oh
lewis]:do a let's see yeah i think i would do like a celestial warlock so
lewis]:someone who should be really really good but has this packet and i would probably
lewis]:make their character lust for power but kind of fight against that lust so you
lewis]:know same way someone who is pre predisposed to be an alcoholic this person is
lewis]:predisposed to seek after power yet have this celestial angelic heritage and i would probably
lewis]:in this in this world i would probably make it so they actually have you
lewis]:know in certain cases in certain world celestial actually have kind of a connection to
lewis]:an angel that guides them and tells them what to do you know some people
lewis]:you know in our modern ver vernacular you might call it like the holy spirit
lewis]:of the ghost or the holy ghost if you're a christian i would probably have
lewis]:them have something like this and give their benefactor a name and so their benefactor
lewis]:and their patrons are kind of always at odds trying to get them to do
lewis]:different things you know of the scene with emperors new grove with cronk and the
lewis]:shoulder angels
weyland]:hm
lewis]:you know that that would kind of be the epitome but again i would try
lewis]:and make it simple but also somewhat flashy so they're like wow i can do
lewis]:cool things like when i level up i can summon like a demon which has
lewis]:nuts but also
weyland]:h
lewis]:if i want to i can just
weyland]:m
lewis]:shoot an eldrich blast a couple times and be done with yeah
weyland]:that's great i love that especially i like that there was depth to the role
weyland]:playing
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:because if they're uninterested it's probably because they just are picturing a bunch of words
weyland]:being like oh hey i
lewis]:hm
weyland]:roll to hit you with my mighty sword you know instead
lewis]:yes
weyland]:it's nice because you're like hey you got a little crank like angel
lewis]:exactly
weyland]:devil like shoulder angels you know andilio
lewis]:yeah and
weyland]:i like that
lewis]:if i could add it i think one important thing about having those the patron
weyland]:oh
lewis]:and the benefactor is
weyland]:oh
lewis]:it allows me as the d m to kind of put in my two sense
lewis]:to the character to the player
weyland]:ay
lewis]:on some things that they should do or can do so that way they're not
lewis]:solely responsible for all the choices that they have to make like they don't have
lewis]:to think of everything but instead as a d m i can somewhat whisper hey
lewis]:this person needs help or hey you should steal person's knife or something like that
lewis]:and i'm interested to think like i would maybe make it so the voices for
lewis]:the benefactor and the patron are basically unlike you can't distinguish between so you don't
lewis]:always know whether you're following you know satan or the angel or the devil if
lewis]:that makes sense
weyland]:yeah i like that too
lewis]:oh
weyland]:because it kind of keeps them on their toes which is another
lewis]:hm
weyland]:way to keep people interested
lewis]:m
weyland]:right suspense
lewis]:exactly
weyland]:or you know in decision both of those are great it's to
lewis]:hm
weyland]:do it versus someone who's just watching all the other players kind of do there
weyland]:their thing right
lewis]:exactly
weyland]:yeah great
lewis]:ah
weyland]:love that good warm up i think you crushed it
lewis]:uh
weyland]:um
lewis]:h thank you
weyland]:okay so today we're actually going to be talking
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:a lot about not uninterested players but beginner players who oftentimes can
lewis]:oh
weyland]:be uninterested but first we're going to get into some announcements
lewis]:oh
weyland]:um so first off to introduce myself it's been a sex i'm tanner wayland and
lewis]:oh
weyland]:i'm here with my compatriot my friend justin lewis
lewis]:either
weyland]:he waved you didn't see it
lewis]:oh
weyland]:i'm so sorry
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:um so today
lewis]:ye
weyland]:like always we're going to be learning about how to craft better stories for yourself
weyland]:and your players
lewis]:ye
weyland]:as you d m sessions of dungeons and dragons five e
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:h so as you all know d and d is very popular nowadays stranger things
weyland]:obviously kind of led to rereseargence and then of course people even before then were
weyland]:starting to get into it more because being being inured wasn't wasn't a bad thing
weyland]:uh but because of that we're going
lewis]:h
weyland]:to have a lot of
lewis]:m
weyland]:new
lewis]:ah
weyland]:players um and that's why we felt like today's topic was so important
lewis]:oh
weyland]:but as it's a couple of housekeeping items before we get into that
lewis]:m
weyland]:so first
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:off we've got our one shot coming up it's saturday
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:september
lewis]:okay
weyland]:seventeenth two pm mountain top we're going to be sending
lewis]:ah
weyland]:out an email we actually have all five players signed up already so for those
weyland]:who were
lewis]:ah
weyland]:late or didn't make it definitely we'll have you on the list for
lewis]:m
weyland]:the next one we're actually hoping to collaborate with some some
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:wonderful people that we've done podcast with
lewis]:oh
weyland]:some of the guests we've had so we're going to keep that a secret though
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:who but we have some we have some
lewis]:m
weyland]:fun plans
lewis]:m oh
weyland]:um but yeah so we're going to be sending out calendar invite to each of
weyland]:those five players make sure the dates all set and then also send them all
weyland]:the other into they need next we just want to give a shout out to
weyland]:one of our to a listener roberick van helm he's awesome rob is great
lewis]:oh
weyland]:he's actually kind of shown us this encounter that he wrote designed like professionally
lewis]:oh
weyland]:it's called the league of libraries though or croft collection now if any of you
weyland]:are
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:kind of getting into d and d or if you're you know what sometimes i
weyland]:get a little tired or burnt out of making one shots you know you're kind
weyland]:of in that place where you just want to see what other people have made
weyland]:rob's
lewis]:oh
weyland]:he knocked it out of the park so we actually are going
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:to have the the link in the show now so that you
lewis]:ah
weyland]:can go there but if you don't look at that it's at better dungeon master
weyland]:dot com
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weyland]:ford slash rob rick r o b r i c go there just all
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:the proceeds go to rob and i think
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you'll really enjoy it but well first
lewis]:i
weyland]:off anything else anything else justin yeah
lewis]:um no m again rob is awesome he makes awesome stuff on dungeon master
weyland]:oh
lewis]:dam guild come and uh yeah i for one am super excited to hear the
lewis]:one shot in september and for those of you who are interested
weyland]:m
lewis]:we will be coming out probably with a link for you to act all watch
lewis]:the one shot just just in case you didn't get a chance to send up
lewis]:you'll be able to watch it and kind of participate that way so keep an
lewis]:eye out for that
weyland]:perfect so yeah let's let's get on to the meat
lewis]:yah
weyland]:tasty meat of the conversation
lewis]:h
weyland]:which is dem tips
lewis]:m
weyland]:for beginners
lewis]:ah
weyland]:um
lewis]:oh
weyland]:now justin
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:why don't you start us out
lewis]:yes sure so first thing i want to say is these tips are for both
lewis]:new players and new dims helping new players and so the first one i would
lewis]:say
weyland]:yah
lewis]:is
weyland]:yah oh
lewis]:talk
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:with your players slash d m if you're a new player if you're a new
lewis]:d m you need to open up those halls of communication and you need as
lewis]:the d m the new d m you need to ask your players lots and
lewis]:lots of questions specifically about what they would add to your game or what really
lewis]:hasn't worked for them as well you know them understand that they can freely talk
lewis]:to you and ask you questions as well you know if you need player if
lewis]:you need inflow about our players back story ask them
weyland]:m
lewis]:immediately hopefully in some sort of private setting so you don't tip off other players
lewis]:but if you want your players also offering you in fo bout their back story
lewis]:tell them that nothing would make you happier help them understand that they need to
lewis]:be talking to you as much as they can want and it's kind of ironic
lewis]:actually for such a quote unquote norty game the game teaches a lot about relationships
lewis]:you know in order to have a successful campaign you absolutely need constant and consistent
lewis]:mmunication from all parties involved you know if nothing else you need that just to
lewis]:even
weyland]:m
lewis]:keep the game scheduled right
weyland]:absolutely i think that the great thing about d and d as always is
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:it's it's you
lewis]:oh
weyland]:essentially playing together with your friends you know talking is like
lewis]:m
weyland]:so central to that that's what's great about it as opposed to
lewis]:hm
weyland]:a lot of video games board games
lewis]:oh
weyland]:i mean a lot of those you can do that as well but you
lewis]:oh
weyland]:literally can't do d and d without it
lewis]:yeh
weyland]:and so you know if you're new
lewis]:hm
weyland]:h d m new player
lewis]:yes
weyland]:just embrace that just be like hey you know those conversations that we like having
weyland]:we're
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:going to have a lot of conversations and it's going to be about you know
weyland]:about the game it's going to be about other stuff you just need to
lewis]:oh
weyland]:really embrace that and kind
lewis]:oh
weyland]:of to to the point that you know
lewis]:m
weyland]:some people might you know they might be introverts but
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you know you can help them feel like it's a safe space for them to
weyland]:you know
lewis]:hm
weyland]:talk in by by including them by seeing what their opinion is you know not
weyland]:talking over them but like especially
lewis]:m
weyland]:if they're a new player you know make sure that if they start talking you
weyland]:listen and you treat it treat it trying to say treat respectfully treat them like
weyland]:an equal yeah
lewis]:no you're you're completely right like h and i don't have kids but i'd imagine
lewis]:it's just like with kids if you know you're you're kids when they're younger they
lewis]:come to you and they show you these things that are super important to them
lewis]:but you don't really care when they're older and they have important things are they're
lewis]:going to come to you not really it's the same thing with being a dungeon
lewis]:master if you don't you know take even the minorist question seriously especially if someone's
lewis]:knew than when they have bigger questions they're not really gonna you know feel comfortable
lewis]:asking
weyland]:totally
lewis]:you
weyland]:um and so so a tip that i'd like to talk about and this one
weyland]:honestly is more
lewis]:yes
weyland]:directed to players specifically
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:like new players
lewis]:oh
weyland]:it's you know as a new
lewis]:hm
weyland]:player it's going to be easy to arrive at a session and feel like you're
weyland]:kind of just tag tagging along you know like oh everybody else especially the d
weyland]:m has their
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:iss to there and there you know they know how to play the game they've
weyland]:got these character back stories that they're super
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:invested in and you're going to feel maybe like you're just
lewis]:oh
weyland]:like a ride along side kick instead
lewis]:i
weyland]:learn how to take ownership
lewis]:hm
weyland]:and now what does that look
lewis]:ye
weyland]:like i find that ownership means a few things one you're going to get some
weyland]:material now
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:i'm not saying that you have to shell out the money
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and buy all the books but maybe you buy one or maybe you go online
lewis]:oh
weyland]:and read through the website
lewis]:hm
weyland]:for example maybe like for your class for your first character you're going to be
weyland]:studying every
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:week just a little bit about that character and some of the law and maybe
weyland]:some of the abilities that they can do right because if you wait for just
weyland]:during the session
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:you're going to feel a little bit out of out of your depth ah and
weyland]:that's not what we want you know players feeling because because it should be a
weyland]:fun environment first and one of the ways you can have real fun is taking
weyland]:that
lewis]:ah
weyland]:taking that step and just being like you know what i did my studying on
weyland]:my own i learned about the background of the campaign
lewis]:m
weyland]:or i solidified some of the background of my character so i can play them
weyland]:better right whatever it is if you take ownership
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and you're like learning about it
lewis]:ah
weyland]:even in your off time so to say so to speak then you're going to
weyland]:feel more part of the game you know
lewis]:i agree and i think that is a really good point because you know for
lewis]:some of these new players you know sitting at a table with experienced quote unquote
lewis]:norty players can maybe feel intimid ting when they have these tricked out characters with
lewis]:deep back stories you know you don't feel like you belong um as a dungeon
lewis]:master it's your it's your opportunity to help a player and say hey maybe you
lewis]:don't feel like you'd be long because you haven't read these things or you haven't
lewis]:thought about your character back story and we can do that together and actually you
lewis]:know going on that note i would say my second tip is in those conversations
lewis]:when maybe your player is having those doubts or something try and help them unlimit
lewis]:themselves you know sometimes new players might look to the d m and think or
lewis]:say what is it they want me to do here and if that is how
lewis]:you play as a d m i suggest you you know you re think your
lewis]:style in fact
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:i know my wife has literally said that to me in the recent past during
lewis]:our game and i took that as a personal failure because you know at no
lewis]:point do i want her thinking that i am the game instead i'm kind of
lewis]:just the arbiter of the game making it so they are the game you know
lewis]:and and you want your players to think outside the box and treat the scenarios
lewis]:as real world scenarios in my opinion where there are infinite options you know they
lewis]:don't always have to the monster they can find another way out and and the
lewis]:mechanics of the game are in my opinion there just to be that mechanics processes
lewis]:that explain how consequences come about and you know it's a fine line but if
lewis]:they want to try something they can and it's my job as a d m
lewis]:to just think about how logically difficult are perhaps impossible that thing is and then
lewis]:let them try anyways you know so tell your players to let themselves imagine grand
lewis]:things and then try them out and kind of process evelimen or process of failure
lewis]:or success learn how to do things
weyland]:yeah and
lewis]:in
weyland]:we've
lewis]:dad
weyland]:even
lewis]:i guess
weyland]:talked about this before right where we talked about making failure you know not such
weyland]:a hard wall that players just are like orat well i guess the d m
weyland]:doesn't want me
lewis]:hm
weyland]:do that you know instead
lewis]:oh
weyland]:it's like hey let the player truly
lewis]:uh
weyland]:live so to speak
lewis]:h
weyland]:and do
lewis]:o
weyland]:whatever they want to um if it's something
lewis]:oh
weyland]:that's a little
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:you know a little
lewis]:oh
weyland]:tasteless a little bit you know
lewis]:oh
weyland]:they're dreaming so then it's like hey let them have consequences or let them succeed
lewis]:right
weyland]:and it suddenly the game gets turned on its head and that's fun too right
weyland]:uh like if they succeed according to the rules
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and then other times if they fail according to the mechanics and the rules you
weyland]:can you can kind of soften that failure you can be like hey obviously you
weyland]:were kind of ord mer player with like how the story was going
lewis]:oh
weyland]:uh therefore i'm going to take this failure
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and i'm not just going to be like hey get back on track instead i'm
weyland]:gonna be lie you know what let's change the in up a little bit your
weyland]:failure has
lewis]:hm
weyland]:led to a different avenue a path that you can go different from what you
weyland]:thought and different from what i thought but hopefully interesting right m but
lewis]:agreed agreed
weyland]:one thing that you know i think we talk a lot about inddndabout like deming
weyland]:almost feels more like reacting you know to another player's choice and it is but
weyland]:i think that
lewis]:m
weyland]:many times the best
lewis]:oh
weyland]:the best content the best moments happen when there's collaboration
lewis]:kay
weyland]:so this applies to whether a d m or a player if you're a player
weyland]:you can really collaborate in so many things right even though
lewis]:ye
weyland]:you're not creating the world around you you can collaborate in your player's back story
weyland]:you can be like hey other player friend of mine how about
lewis]:oh
weyland]:we you know our players are characters are related in a certain way right
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:in between sessions you could even talk and be like
lewis]:h
weyland]:hey
lewis]:m
weyland]:i think it'd be super funny or cool if both of our people were like
weyland]:like shooting for this
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you know on the other hand you can so collaborate with
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:the d m for wonderful results right that's how most the like most players whose
weyland]:player back stories get interwoven
lewis]:oh
weyland]:into a
lewis]:yah
weyland]:into a story in an effective way it's because they're talking with the dim outside
weyland]:of it they're being like hey i wrote this scene this flash back this
lewis]:i
weyland]:this mintage for what i want
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:my player to go through in order to explain this mechanical change that's happening or
weyland]:whatever right and if they do that then i think the other players get a
weyland]:kick out of it you
lewis]:hm
weyland]:get a kick out of it as a d m or a player because
lewis]:ah
weyland]:you've put in the work you know you've taken time to not just do it
weyland]:off the cuff but to actually prepare it and i think it just makes for
weyland]:a more rich
lewis]:oh
weyland]:story in general
lewis]:oh yeah and i actually have two examples of this so you know in the
lewis]:last few weeks examples of d m m is the d m kind of reaching
lewis]:out for collaboration with the player and then me i m asking the player for
lewis]:some collaboration so long story short in one of my sessions three of our characters
weyland]:hm
lewis]:were petrified right which is kind of nuts but one of those was a a
lewis]:a female named
weyland]:m
lewis]:row who has been looking for her long lost brother and she's kind of a
lewis]:shadyish character you know and she one of the petrified characters and when the player
lewis]:was like you know i need to make my new character i was like hey
lewis]:i have a suggestion if you're up for it and she's like shoot and i
lewis]:said how about you play your other character s long lost brother who has actually
lewis]:been searching for her and then the other two characters are also part of your
lewis]:kind of criminal crew as it were on you you know you kind of encounter
lewis]:each
weyland]:hm
lewis]:other and you're also share in my my wife who actually is the player she
lewis]:she really enjoyed that and after she played it she's like wow it's really interesting
lewis]:playing a differe character because i was rude for so long now i'm ransom and
lewis]:i'm having to like play differently and that was just one example where i made
lewis]:a suggestion and then she ran with it kind of on the flip side in
lewis]:the last session we had one of our characters his name is jerry he's a
lewis]:paladin dragon born and he was actually found in the under dark and then brought
lewis]:with the companions to the surface and so for then he had lost his other
lewis]:adventuring companions and for the first time in the in the campaign he sent a
lewis]:sending you know he messaged
weyland]:h m
lewis]:one of them and he's like i would like to message my old
weyland]:oh
lewis]:party and me as the d m i was like oh crab i don't know
lewis]:what to do here so i said okay what is the name of the person
weyland]:yet
lewis]:you are reaching out to and he said mira and i was like that's something
lewis]:i've never heard so i said what do you
weyland]:m
lewis]:say and then he said you know
weyland]:oh
lewis]:he said his message of like hey i haven't thought about you guys i wonder
lewis]:where you were and then i responded
weyland]:m
lewis]:i said wow it's been so long ah and then we kind of collaborated a
lewis]:little bit more because he was like how is everyone
weyland]:m
lewis]:and i was like well what are the names of all the people
weyland]:oh
lewis]:that were in the group and he gave that to me and
weyland]:oh
lewis]:then i gave him a little tit bit saying hey there actually
weyland]:oh
lewis]:in the astral cat uh and it
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:was kind of this really cool moment of this character because
weyland]:oh
lewis]:this character was essentially
weyland]:hm
lewis]:a replacement for another character that died and we haven't had a chance to the
lewis]:back story for it but in you know a small moment we have essentially without
lewis]:even needing to build a back story for
weyland]:oh
lewis]:this
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:character because he's lost his memory but now he knows that his old friends are
lewis]:in trouble and so that's kind of another plot hook that we can pursue and
lewis]:it was you know player d m collaboration and he provided the details i just
lewis]:said this is the problem that are in and now it's percolating in his mind
lewis]:so just a couple of examples of
weyland]:that's
lewis]:d
weyland]:great
lewis]:m
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:player collaboration
weyland]:especially like how you know us a d m
lewis]:oh
weyland]:it like collaboration isn't
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:always like hey let's
lewis]:oh
weyland]:both sit down and come over with an idea a lot of times it's one
weyland]:of
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you pitching an idea the other one
lewis]:h
weyland]:yes ending
lewis]:m
weyland]:them
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:right um
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and then taking it and not like
lewis]:exactly
weyland]:letting them be like not letting them have to do everything on their
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:own right so if someone's
lewis]:m
weyland]:like hey i have this idea it's
lewis]:hm
weyland]:not fully fleshed out then give them a leg up
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:like hey i love where that's going
lewis]:m oh
weyland]:here's my ideas on top of that and you can do that in game you
weyland]:can do
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:outside um either way i think
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:you're going to feel a lot
lewis]:oh
weyland]:of pressure off your back and have better story if you do just kind of
weyland]:acknowledge and try to um make collaboration a much
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:more active part of your story telling
lewis]:oh oh yeah exactly exactly and and then the last tip i'm going to give
lewis]:before we go to a quick break is as a d m encourage your players
lewis]:and tell them that they're going to get what sorry they're going to get out
lewis]:they put in and
weyland]:oh
lewis]:this is kind of from the movies
weyland]:ah
lewis]:as it were
weyland]:oh
lewis]:and we don't realize this but when we watch movies we essentially give the screen
lewis]:or or the the story permission to bring us into the world we volunteer ourselves
lewis]:and you can tell when it's a bad movie you don't actually give that volunteering
lewis]:you don't you don't give that permission to kind of steel you away and you
lewis]:reserve yourself in the real world as it were but as a d m you
lewis]:know this you know that the more you put in
weyland]:oh
lewis]:the more you're on get out so to your players try and encourage them and
lewis]:say i know it's going to feel awkward i know you're going to feel weird
lewis]:and
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:silly and you're gonna look around and you're not
weyland]:oh
lewis]:going to think everyone else is doing the same thing you're gonna think wow everyone's
lewis]:looking at being all weird but encourage your players
weyland]:ah
lewis]:and say the more you give permission to the game to embrace you and poly
lewis]:you in the more fun you're going to have an honest that's one of the
lewis]:biggest tips i could say for you
weyland]:perfect
lewis]:to pass along
weyland]:i love
lewis]:to your
weyland]:it
lewis]:new players oh
weyland]:so before we continue do you want to you want a short break justin
lewis]:yeah let's go back to um
weyland]:ye
lewis]:so if you have like a conti ation of the earlier
weyland]:okay
lewis]:prompt for the warm up
weyland]:perfect
lewis]:uh let's use that as the break like take
weyland]:okay
lewis]:that character and then something else you know oh
weyland]:okay
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:no
lewis]:and if you need like
weyland]:no it's
lewis]:we
weyland]:okay
lewis]:can pause for a second
weyland]:okay
lewis]:and let
weyland]:perfect
lewis]:you think or what not
weyland]:so before we continue
lewis]:yah
weyland]:and get to the end of this topic that we're discussing i've got
lewis]:yah
weyland]:a continuation of the warm up that we had before you ready justin
lewis]:oh
weyland]:okay perfect so i really loved
lewis]:yes
weyland]:the idea of of the celestial warlock that you created for this player
lewis]:oh
weyland]:for this uninterested player especially with the kind
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:of shoulder angel vibe
lewis]:my
weyland]:going on
lewis]:i
weyland]:okay so as a continuation
lewis]:uh
weyland]:of that what would you
lewis]:ye oh
weyland]:what would be one what is it
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:conundrum difficult choice that
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you would pose for that player that you think would be very interesting
lewis]:m
weyland]:for them
lewis]:m
lewis]:sure uh so uh first of all i would probably name the character clos and
lewis]:in this instance clowes would
weyland]:oh
lewis]:probably be um
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:m let's see ah it would probably be someone
weyland]:m
lewis]:of power is in trouble someone who clos can actually take advantage of or like
lewis]:their death would ben it's cloes so maybe it's a
weyland]:oh
lewis]:uh we'll say it's a constable or something that has evidence that clos did something
lewis]:wrong and they are in trouble
weyland]:ah
lewis]:they are you know classic example would be like hanging from a ledge and they
lewis]:are there and they have the voices in their heads saying let them fall and
lewis]:die and your your scott free or save them
weyland]:m
lewis]:and show that you are better than this and i think that would be a
lewis]:really interestin then because i think if the player has understood the character then it
lewis]:should make them think about what does this character actually want and you know what
lewis]:they choose will i think be really telling about what the player is hoping to
lewis]:get from the character experience so if they let the person fall then they're probably
lewis]:going to go for you know more power and it will be a lot easier
lewis]:to tempt them with such things and in the voice of the benefactor will get
lewis]:less and less but on the on the flip side the patron might have some
lewis]:issue with that and they might get if their
weyland]:okay
lewis]:power is taken
weyland]:follow
lewis]:away and they're
weyland]:up because
lewis]:going
weyland]:i
lewis]:to
weyland]:had
lewis]:be consequences
weyland]:a thought so
lewis]:in that regard you
weyland]:i
lewis]:know
weyland]:think it would be very tempting for certain
lewis]:ah
weyland]:d ms to you know let's say
lewis]:yes
weyland]:that the c lois lets this constable with the evidence fall
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and now clos actually has a real chance to increase their
lewis]:hm
weyland]:power would you
lewis]:oh
weyland]:penalize the the
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:character immediately
lewis]:yes
weyland]:or would you kind of let them ride high on their
lewis]:a
weyland]:power for this moment
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and then later on with a separate issue kind of let them see the karma
weyland]:for their actions like would you defer that or immediate yeah
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:yeah h that's a good question so the like the story writer inside of me
lewis]:wants to actually make it so the constable doesn't actually die so like they just
lewis]:get hurt really badly they should have died but it just wasn't far enough or
lewis]:whatever it was and so i think it would probably be later it comes back
lewis]:to bite them in the butt and essentially show them like hey you thought you
lewis]:were on top you actually should have just
weyland]:m
lewis]:killed him rather than just letting him fall or you should have helped him because
lewis]:now he's back and he knows that it was you and and so forth the
lewis]:other option would be to have people see in that area that you know they
lewis]:let them fall and i see that's a really good question because i think you
lewis]:know there are there are good ideas on both sides like on the one you
lewis]:could show that or you know to make it even more interesting they're trying to
lewis]:help him and as they're trying to help him he falls anyways and people see
lewis]:and you know it becomes like they get worst of both sides you know there's
lewis]:all sorts of things you could do as a d m and i think it
lewis]:really depends on what your goal is next with the character i think the most
lewis]:interesting thing to do with this would be to allow them to have that kind
lewis]:of power and the freedom and then have it slowly kind of and close in
lewis]:upon them
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:as
weyland]:that's
lewis]:they realize
weyland]:i love that and and the
lewis]:i don't
weyland]:reason
lewis]:think
weyland]:i
lewis]:he's
weyland]:pitched
lewis]:dead
weyland]:it because
lewis]:you know
weyland]:i had the same
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:as you were as you were introducing the scenario
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you were presenting i had the same thought i was like honestly if
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:you let him a ride high in his power for a while
lewis]:h
weyland]:and then let it kind of be a slow burn
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:like
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:thing that comes back to haunt
lewis]:ah
weyland]:him
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:that's great or if
lewis]:oh
weyland]:it is a media and it's like oh my goodness he thought he'd get all
weyland]:this power
lewis]:m
weyland]:but instead
lewis]:hm
weyland]:like three towns folk saw him and they're all running away and he there has
weyland]:to
lewis]:oh
weyland]:kill them as well and kind of deep in his hole
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:or he gets caught you know like i think that that's
lewis]:a
weyland]:that's awesome
lewis]:right
weyland]:good good job m
lewis]:yeah i think it would also be i think it would also be interesting to
lewis]:kind of put him in the same situation again
weyland]:ah
lewis]:but a long time down the
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:road and see what he does again you know like does he make the same
lewis]:decision or does he try the opposite you know maybe not exactly the same but
lewis]:kind of like it should be visually similar so it kind of calls to memory
lewis]:in the player's mind like oh wait i was here before but i let this
lewis]:person die you know and i think that would be
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:really
weyland]:i love
lewis]:interesting
weyland]:that i think that
lewis]:to do as well
weyland]:it
lewis]:but
weyland]:also
lewis]:maybe
weyland]:allows
lewis]:a little bit more difficult
weyland]:ou as the dam to you know voicing the shoulder angel and devil
lewis]:oh
weyland]:to essentially like you similar lines
lewis]:h
weyland]:and that would really help the player kind
lewis]:m
weyland]:of like be like oh my goodness this is happening again right a great love
weyland]:it
lewis]:right
weyland]:but anyway
lewis]:right
weyland]:thank you for you know that great warm up
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:let's continue to talking about tips
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:for players there players and d ms that are new to d and d how
weyland]:about let's have you start
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:yeah so the next tip i would say is one you need to relate to
lewis]:your new players and this is one that specific it would be better to do
lewis]:in a private place and it's that you need to let them know that it's
lewis]:a new thing done a new thing that they're trying and it's okay if they
lewis]:don't like it it's okay if they want to stop uh and they don't have
lewis]:to keep playing just to make you happy in fact what i think is you
lewis]:should go one step further and say if this happens where you find yourself not
lewis]:interested in the game as much or just not having as much fun as you
lewis]:want just come to me i promise you i won't get mad pull me aside
lewis]:when no one else is around and just simply explain that you know you had
lewis]:some fun at dandy but it's just not your five or you know your kids
lewis]:need your attention or you have different priorities really anything else just just explain to
lewis]:them how you want that process to go about and say it's perfectly fine and
lewis]:explain to them also that what's not okay is for players to constantly led
weyland]:oh
lewis]:everyone else on and also forced everyone to change their schedule because they don't have
lewis]:the spine to actually say no thank you you know dad is not for everyone
lewis]:we welcome everyone and we invite everyone however who stays is entirely up them but
lewis]:i'll tell you this though we're going to have some amazing memories with whoever stays
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:and we will
weyland]:exactly
lewis]:harbor no
weyland]:and
lewis]:ill
weyland]:this
lewis]:will
weyland]:is
lewis]:to
weyland]:actually
lewis]:anyone who
weyland]:such
lewis]:doesn't
weyland]:a huge
lewis]:i'll
weyland]:piece
lewis]:just say
weyland]:of
lewis]:that
weyland]:advice um you know for people like me i
lewis]:yes
weyland]:kind of i enjoy having a lot of different experiences especially friends and
lewis]:thank
weyland]:i will inconvenience myself
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:because i'm like oh but i like this you know uh
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:despite the fact that honestly
lewis]:oh
weyland]:being without it would probably be a load off my know weight
lewis]:hm
weyland]:off shoulders um and so kind of getting ahead of that like you said and
weyland]:telling them
lewis]:sure
weyland]:like hay if this
lewis]:oh
weyland]:happens that's okay um and for the d m in that situe ation well first
weyland]:off d m s you can also do this if you're getting burnt out realize
weyland]:that
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:you can be like hey guys well well actually i have an example
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:a cousin of mine was finishing a game i think i've shared this before
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:but school was starting up again
lewis]:oh
weyland]:he knew that it was going to get super busy in college
lewis]:oh
weyland]:and so we got to this boss
lewis]:okay
weyland]:to all of us we didn't know how long he had planned on doing this
weyland]:campaign
lewis]:oh
weyland]:we got to this boss and we were like oh the rest
lewis]:oh
weyland]:of us were thinking internally this must be the last
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:boss and we're fighting it and then the boss kills us all and the
lewis]:oh
weyland]:and the
lewis]:um
weyland]:my cousin
lewis]:m m
weyland]:was like hey so
lewis]:uh
weyland]:this is the last
lewis]:uh
weyland]:session i'm going to
lewis]:yah
weyland]:be deming because all this other stuff
lewis]:yah
weyland]:it was just so funny because if we had had that kind of conversation like
weyland]:you had said like being like hey it's okay to end he probably could have
weyland]:just let us win and we like
lewis]:hm
weyland]:did you realize that we didn't know
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:that you had this whole other stuff planned you could have just
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:had this giant tentacle like
lewis]:u
weyland]:a sea monster god that year
lewis]:h
weyland]:they
lewis]:oh
weyland]:wiped us out we could have you could have let us win
lewis]:ah
weyland]:even if it was hard
lewis]:oh
weyland]:and just that could have been the end of the campaign you know
lewis]:hm
weyland]:and he was like oh yeah i just thought it was so funny because
lewis]:h
weyland]:because
lewis]:m
weyland]:he was like the
lewis]:oh
weyland]:only way to stop this is to kill them all because the idea of almost
weyland]:like ending the campaign was
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:like that's not on the table apparently
lewis]:ah
weyland]:you know unless they all die and it's a t p q
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:but yeah i just thought it was so funny
lewis]:right
weyland]:and so i think that having
lewis]:m
weyland]:steps or having that conversation about when to stop or how to let some player
weyland]:leave it's so
lewis]:m
weyland]:important especially because if you if it's only one player who wants to leave
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:i think there's some d
lewis]:oh
weyland]:ms out there and you've probably met some justin who would be who would kind
weyland]:of pressure the player like honestly without you i don't know if we can keep
weyland]:going
lewis]:h
weyland]:you know
lewis]:m
weyland]:and the fact is i'm going to say right now like that you can find
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:someone else you know it is a little nerve racking to reach out to other
weyland]:you know friends
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:spouses
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:family members and ask can be like hey i've got this game want to come
weyland]:in to some people you probably
lewis]:m
weyland]:maybe don't know you know i think people are a lot more willing if you
weyland]:just ask you know we make it a huge issue when it doesn't need to
weyland]:be so let people go if they want to go
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:and then you know realize
lewis]:ye
weyland]:that there's you know more fish in the sea for you
lewis]:oh
weyland]:to ask to come in your game right
lewis]:yes
weyland]:yeah but great great
lewis]:hundred
weyland]:advice
lewis]:percent
weyland]:love
lewis]:hundred
weyland]:it
lewis]:percent
weyland]:now for
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:if you're on the opposite end and you're
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:not the kind of person who's getting a little burnt out
lewis]:ye
weyland]:or thinks you might be say you're the kind of new player who's really just
weyland]:you know driving you've made a couple
lewis]:oh
weyland]:of characters or maybe even
lewis]:oh
weyland]:just one you know i think some players they have this barrier between them and
weyland]:being a d m where they're like oh i'm just not skilled enough or the
weyland]:game that i would come up with just isn't you know it's not going to
weyland]:be cool enough
lewis]:h
weyland]:and
lewis]:m
weyland]:i think that's hogwash you know
lewis]:oh
weyland]:it's just it's not true you can you can
lewis]:oh
weyland]:any level of skill
lewis]:hm
weyland]:you can try and be a d m right that's what this whole podcast is
weyland]:essentially about sometimes
lewis]:oh
weyland]:people have just been barely starting
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:to play d and d sometimes they've
lewis]:oh
weyland]:been playing for years
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you can always get better and so if that's the case
lewis]:ah
weyland]:then you know
lewis]:oh
weyland]:why not start playing early as a d m and writing your own campaigns because
weyland]:it's like hey there's other people who probably have been playing a lot longer who
weyland]:aren't that
lewis]:ah
weyland]:much more skilled
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:than you because you know because
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:it all depends on how how you develop yourself
lewis]:oh
weyland]:so yeah that's kind of my my advice there is try deming
lewis]:oh
weyland]:do it you can ask people for help but
lewis]:yeah oh
weyland]:if you want to do it don't put it off just because you think it's
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:outside of your capabilities
lewis]:i agreed and i just add that by trying deming it will make you a
lewis]:better player and it will make it more fun for everyone else at the table
lewis]:when you play and also your d ms will love you more because you'll understand
lewis]:them and you'll appreciate what they do which is as a dungeon master important the
lewis]:last tip i would give to you dungeon masters to pass on to your players
lewis]:it encourages them to describe their own content uh it's one of the ways that
lewis]:each person can make themselves feel cool and if they struggle with it tell them
lewis]:no worries i will fill in the blank when you struggle and i'll help you
lewis]:and proud you along so that we you can eventually create these awesome scenes of
lewis]:your character doing really awesome stuff and in doing that i would help them understand
lewis]:that it doesn't have to be you know you roll the dice and you hit
lewis]:once it can be more narrative and say you trade blows left and right and
lewis]:eventually you slide their sword up just a little bit so that way you can
lewis]:their outer arm and draw a little bit of blood with two points of damage
lewis]:or something like that but help them you know embellish on their own and this
lewis]:will actually save you some time and enter an effort so that way you don't
lewis]:have to describe every person's combat and it is a fine line and it does
lewis]:take to it does take some find tuning but i think that definitely goes a
lewis]:long way to helping each person as tanner always say you know the goal is
lewis]:to make each person at least once during
weyland]:yeah
lewis]:the night feel
weyland]:exactly
lewis]:awesome
weyland]:and
lewis]:and describing
weyland]:and
lewis]:your
weyland]:i
lewis]:own combat i
weyland]:honestly
lewis]:think is a great
weyland]:wouldn't
lewis]:way
weyland]:stop
lewis]:to start
weyland]:even
lewis]:down
weyland]:just
lewis]:that
weyland]:with
lewis]:road
weyland]:combat i would say skill checks as well because i think that that's
lewis]:oh
weyland]:overlooked because d they're like oh
lewis]:oh
weyland]:like i have to tell
lewis]:hm
weyland]:them that they succeeded
lewis]:oh
weyland]:and so i might as well just go the next step and be like okay
weyland]:you unlock the door but instead you could say okay
lewis]:hm
weyland]:you passed it you unlock the door what does that
lewis]:h
weyland]:look like
lewis]:m yeah
weyland]:you know and you could and then that gives them a chance to be like
weyland]:okay i get down i look around put my you know my what other thing
weyland]:lock picks into the door i was going to say tooth picks and i was
weyland]:like that's not right
lewis]:ye yeah lock pick yeah
weyland]:of my gentis new character idea dentist
lewis]:well depends
weyland]:turned
lewis]:on who
weyland]:thief
lewis]:you know it depends on your character i guess
weyland]:but anyway but yeah
lewis]:oh
weyland]:but amazing love it but
lewis]:the tooth fairy
weyland]:yeah i just think that if you
lewis]:yah
weyland]:take any opportunity and if you as
lewis]:h
weyland]:a d m
lewis]:that's
weyland]:aren't
lewis]:great
weyland]:very imaginative here's the great news like like i just said right there
lewis]:m m
weyland]:the way to kind of people in to give them the chance to explain is
weyland]:just
lewis]:okay
weyland]:to be like okay you hit what does that look like um your spell was
weyland]:successful
lewis]:oh
weyland]:what does that look like
lewis]:oh
weyland]:okay you check was successful was a look like it's a very
lewis]:hm
weyland]:simple phrase but it gives them all
lewis]:oh
weyland]:the leeway in the world to do essentially whatever
lewis]:a
weyland]:they want right
lewis]:oh
lewis]:a hundred per cent a hundred per cent so there you have it those are
lewis]:some of our tips on well some of our d and tips for beginners both
lewis]:beginner
weyland]:stop
lewis]:players
weyland]:it you're
lewis]:and
weyland]:so
lewis]:in our
weyland]:nice
lewis]:dungeon masters uh thank you tanner for being such a great host today
weyland]:thanks justin yes and so
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:our
lewis]:you
weyland]:dear
lewis]:did great
weyland]:players now just
lewis]:do you want to finish up with the conclusion
weyland]:joking honestly we are very grateful that
lewis]:uh
weyland]:you were listening today hope that if you're
lewis]:i love
weyland]:a new
lewis]:it
weyland]:player or even if you're experienced
lewis]:oh
weyland]:player or d m
lewis]:yeah
weyland]:m these tips have kind of refreshed some of the simple ways that you can
weyland]:make your your game better story telling better
lewis]:oh
weyland]:um as we mentioned before
lewis]:oh
weyland]:if you want to reach out to us obviously we're going
lewis]:oh
weyland]:to have our website and email in the show notes but in the meantime we
weyland]:hope that
lewis]:oh
weyland]:you have a wonderful time adventuring
lewis]:oh
weyland]:and everybody get ready and roll initiative